Every year we head upstate to Glen Spey in Sullivan County to spend time with our dear friend Alex who used to be our studio manager. It’s a beautiful drive, just under 2 hours. We relaxed, swam in the lake and our big outing was a visit to the local farmers’ market, coming home with amazing cheeses and bread for cocktail hour! This visit aligned with the Summer Solstice and we celebrated by making wreaths out of ferns and wildflowers. As the sun went down we helped the girls light candles and float them on the lake.
Our group had younger girls but if your kids are a bit older there are water rafting, canoe and tubing options in the area (Barryville, just about 10 minute’s drive) which can be a lot of fun! Check out Reber River Trips and Indian Head Canoes. Both offer multiple levels of adventures for all ages.
We have been partnering with Hoboken Chiropractic and Wellness and experienced the help of Dr. Laura Brayton and Dr. Olga Alvarez first-hand. They are amazing healers. Hoboken Chiropractic was kind enough to share this wonderful piece from their newsletter with us and you!
Reclaiming Your 20
Whether it’s a packed day at work, a long list of family commitments, kids to run around all day for sports, cheer and music lessons, or a stack of bills to take care of, the average person lives a stressful life. While stress is probably unavoidable, taking a few minutes a day for yourself to un-plug and rejuvenate could make a huge difference. While some stress is key for survival and studies have shown that not all stress is bad, many studies have shown that stress is probably more dangerous than you realize. Emotional stress that stays around for weeks or months has shown to weaken the immune system and cause high blood pressure, depression, anxiety, fatigue, and even heart disease. The American Institute of Stress says that there is a proven relationship between stress and heart disease. Any stress that invokes the “fight or flight” response is dangerous and recent studies conducted by the American Psychological Association revealed that 73% of those surveyed regularly experienced psychological symptoms caused by stress. In addition, 77% of Americans also experienced physical symptoms such as fatigue, upset stomach, muscle tension, and headaches. A recent study from Massachusetts General Hospital found that as little as eight weeks of meditation not only helped people feel calmer but produced changes in various areas of the brain. Additionally, the Chopra Center says that meditation has shown to provide relief from stress and anxiety (meditation mitigates the effects of the “fight-or-flight” response, decreasing the production of stress hormones such as cortisol and adrenaline), decreased blood pressure and hypertension, lowered cholesterol levels, increased production of the anti-aging hormone DHEA and helped with restful, restorative sleep. While meditation clearly provides many health benefits, it is not the only way to de-stress.
20 Minutes a Day the Usual Way
Despite busy schedules and hectic lives, it’s important to take just 20 minutes a day to focus on you. There isn’t much you can do to avoid the stresses of your life, but making 20 minutes a priority can make a big difference. Taking the time to just focus on you and something you enjoy, can recharge and help the rest of your day be more effective.
Of course, there are the tried and true options – these are the ways to de-stress that everyone knows about but probably don’t regularly employ.
Meditation or Prayer – Whether in a yoga pose or not, taking a moment to just quiet your mind and rest can be rejuvenating. The most important part of meditating is quieting the noises in your environment; just shut down the inner thoughts that are trying to remind you of the million things you should be doing and just focus on your breathing or your prayers. Rest, quiet your mind, breathe and allow yourself 20 minutes to meditate or pray.
Yoga – Speaking of yoga poses, this is a great way to spend 20 minutes a day. Whether you’re a pro or have never done yoga in your life, spending some time focusing on specific poses will give you a break from the pressures of your schedule and the stress it causes.
Exercise – Generally speaking, any kind of exercise for 20 minute a day is going to be good for you. Whether it’s going for a walk, doing yoga, stretching or Pilates, it’s going to be beneficial. A strenuous routine at the gym or 5-mile jog may even be beneficial to de-stress – if that’s what you enjoy doing. Remember that your goal here is to de-stress if the exercise you choose to do is enjoyable then fine but if you’re using this break to push yourself to exhaustion doing something you hate, that might defeat the purpose.
Reading – If this is your pleasure then do it. Grab a good book, go hide in a comfy corner of the house and read a few chapters, allowing the book to transport you away from your busy schedule and stress-filled day. It’s probably a good idea not to use your phone or other electronic reading device; the point is to unplug and refresh and this is probably easier done with a good, old-fashioned page-turner.
Writing/Journaling – This is another option that is going to be perfect if you’re one of those people that enjoy doing it. If writing isn’t your thing then this will probably be more stressful than helpful. If you’re going to be spending the 20 minutes making a list of all the things you should be getting done, then this isn’t the plan for you. However, if you want to make a list, consider writing a to-do list. Perhaps you’re cooking dinner for your family, or driving your kids to little league, or running to the dry cleaners, allow yourself a mood elevating dose of your favorite music. Research has shown that music improves cognitive performance and reduces stress.
Pamper Yourself – A facial, a massage, a relaxing bath, or even a nap, find something that you can do for yourself. Anything that you find refreshing and beneficial that can be done in 20 minutes.
Plan a Vacation – Really. A study published in the Journal of Applied Research in Quality of Life showed that the largest boost in happiness came when planning a vacation. It’s not necessary to actually go on the vacation; the act of planning one boosted happiness for eight weeks, whereas shortly after the vacation was over happiness returned to baseline.
You may be asking yourself, “Why does my Chiropractor even care about my stress levels?” The answer to that question is a simple one: stress affects your spine. Stress causes the muscles in your back, shoulders, and neck to contract, and the longer they are contracted the more damage they are doing to your spine. As the spine shifts, the interference to your spinal cord causes additional health problems. Perhaps you’re thinking that 20 minutes a day all to yourself seems selfish or lazy. It’s not selfish and it’s not lazy, it’s good for you and it will help you be a better you. Research has shown that those who take short breaks from responsibilities to focus on themselves are actually more productive; you’ll be a better parent, a better partner, better employee… and less stressed.